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hi mr/s callboi.
im jaga611986 from cebu .
a callboi too, (csr)
i got ur blog when i was searching for a pinoy blogs na maganda ang mga entry.
so the rest is history.
ur blog is the best of all in terms of stories, chismis and even gen.info...(wow)
kahit im form a diff. company parang naka relate ako sa mga chismis nyo...
anyways about this "CLOSET" im ONE of them.
may takot kasi ako na malaman ng mga officemates ko kasi di ko gusto ang mga chikka about me (but i like chikka about OTHERS) wahhh...
pero some of my friends may clue na sila..
but im trying to keep in myself and with my bestfriend na may ka live-in na.
i experinced na relationship but it didnt work (1) 1 week lng and (2) 19 days lng (poor me hhuhuh)

QUESTION:
anu gagawin ko para matanggap ng mga friends ko if MAG LABAS NA AKO NG CLOTHES SA CLOSET ko? (u knw want i mean)

i have this fear na hindi nila ako matanggap.
but dito sa office namin may mga bis din na closet. i got this friend of mine na from ps before na kilala ka nya kasi sa blog. i shared ur blog to him he confirm na kilala ka nya kasi ps ka daw.....
code name nya ay mr.tall kasi 6'1 cya. siya lng ang may alam about kasi dahil sa g4m doon kami nag ka kilala.( no SEB nong nag kita kami).
si mr.tall lng ang maka relate sa mga chikka ko...at sharing naman siya kung sino mga pingahihinalaan namin na mga CLOSET.
heheh...at sino ang mga crush namin...

anyways...

keep up the good work sa blog mu.
eat healthy foods para healthy ka.
post more pics.
sa bloggable of the month mu.
pls post mu ang mga hot closet na mag agent sa company nyo at least the top three.
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thanks....

ur blog make my day complete..
post ka naman araw-araw..

GOD SPEED..............

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Dear jaga611986,

Cute name. Parang zipcode lang. :)

Anyway, before I start spewing out words of wisdom for you, let me just reiterate that I know for myself that I should be the last person people should be asking for advice. I can't even put my life into perspective. But hey, I guess you want something out of me so here goes. :)

Masikip sa loob ng closet. Lumabas ka na. Ngayon na. As in now. Don't wait a minute longer. Tapikin mo yang katabi mo and sabihin mo "Tsong bading ako pero don't worry di kita type. Type ko ang brother mo." Tapos tumakbo ka na bago ka masuntok.... Ahehehe. Just kidding, folks.

Pero seriously, come out and join the rest of us who've decided that closets are for clothes. Period.

Anong kelangan mo gawin para matanggap ka ng friends mo? Wala. If their the kind who would ditch you after knowing who you really are, do you really need them by your side?

Anyways, I bet they already know you're gay. And their still there with you, right? So, most likely, it doesn't matter to them. Just spill the beans, dude. What's the worst that could happen besides them shunning you? :)

Promise, ang sarap maging OUT.

It's like, like, nabunutan ka ng tinik sa pwet, at pinalitan ang tinik sa pwet ng isang bagay na mas ok.

Tulad ng band-aid.

Bastos ng isip niyo, dear readers...

Posted by callboi 00:02 Archived in Philippines Tagged gay_travel

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hmmm, it's cool to come out, you can be yourself, pero sometimes kasi, you still have to choose kung kanino mo sasabihin. Depende sa personality ng tao un, ako I choose people whom I can share my secrets too kasi hindi lahat naiintindihan, end up, ija judge ka nila na minsan tlagang nakakainis... I would suggest na sabihin mo yan chong sa pinaka close mo. Ako maraming kaibigang mga nag out din pero kung titingnan mo sila, talagang lalake at walang bahid, some of them are models, pero un nga lang pag naguusap kami, ang difference lang is, kami puro lalake pero lalake din pinaguusapan, pero masaya kami. Coming out does not mean that you have to dress up na babae o pumilantik ka, just be yourself dude and hang out with people you are most comfortable with, i swear, masaya! Ngayon pag sinabi mo yan sa ibang friends mo tapos nilayuan ka, ditch them, they don't deserve your friendship.

by kulutero

thanks!!!
callboi and kulutero.
pag-isipan ko muna.
maybe before this year ends.
para new life na ako sa new year.
hoping talaga ako na matanggap ako ng friends ko.
about sa family side naman ok lng kasi parang alam na nila kasi hinhin ako sa bahay ma-arte etc...
mag paplanu muna ako kung paanu sabihin nila.
:) (: :) :( ): :(

by jaga611986

Hello there Jaga611986.... June 01, 1986 ba ang b-day mo? hehehe just kidding...

I agree to what kulutero said... Its nice to be out but you just need to choose those people na sabihan mo. Hindi lahat ng tao nakaka intindi sa atin kasi sa totoo lang, Tayou ang may pinaka Complicated yet Happy na life. Just be with those people na naintintidahan ka. At least ikaw nga medyo alam na ng Family mo... Hahay... kay hirap... mwahahaha mag senti ba...

Good luck sayo dude...

by Virgin_Boy

get out of the closet pare! you don't owe anybody an explanation. don't mind kung tatangapin ka nila or hindi dahil di mo naman kailangan mag explain sa kanila. you don't need to please everybody para lang tanggapin nila or hindi. kung di ka nila tanggapapin ay hayaan mo nalang dahil mabababaw ang mga ganung klaseng tao.

and remember, okay lang lumabas ka sa closet as long as di ka magkakalat or magwawala. remember, RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT. and always remember the golden rule, DON'T DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU.

by LostInSiam

im so touch sa mga advise...
thanks everyone....
yeah correct kayu i dont owe them an explanation.
btw...yeah bday ko june 1, 1986..
hehehe....jaga ay initials ng complete name ko...
hehheh......

god speed....

by jaga611986

This is the first time I’ve posted a comment in this blog. I just felt that I need to react to this post.

Anyway, ang masasabi ko lang, if it would make you feel uncomfortable to come out, eh di wag ka na lang mag-out! For me, it’s not necessary. Siguro tama rin yung sabi nila na you should only be out to those you feel na they would understand and still respect you. On your friends’ part kasi, pwede nilang mafeel na na-betray sila or hindi sila ganon ka-trustworthy for you. So, you should also understand if your friends will not accept the real you.

Ang mahirap lang talaga na situation for us is pag kinonfront ka ng friends mo at tinanong ka ng sexual preference mo. It’s your call if you would tell the truth or lie…

Some won’t even dare to ask you that question probably because they already know it and they are cool with it or, they don’t really have a clue or does not even care about that. May mga bagay talaga na mas ok na hindi na pag-usapan pa.

If you’ll ask me, mas gusto ko yung thrill keeping yourself discreet and in the closet. Mas challenging! Hehe, pero seriously, feeling ko hindi ako magfifit sa society pagnag-out ako. Parang magiging mas awkward instead na mas free ka gaya ng sabi ni callboi. But, that’s just my opinion. I’m not sure if other discreet guys out there share the same sentiments.

Sana lang yung ibang “Out” na would respect our own preference and won’t blow you.. I mean, blow your cover… hehe It’s ok that they already know your real preference, but just don’t share it to other people who wouldn’t understand. Let them discover the truth! And yung ibang mga discreet naman, should not be too harsh din dun sa mga out, na tipong mas mababa ang tingin nila sa kanila. We should accept our differences but still live in harmony because the bottom line is, all of us like men! You just have to know your niche and market.

All the Best!

by An0nym0us

ay, sorry sa double post, padelete na lang kung pwede, ganda kasi ng internet connection dito eh...

by An0nym0us

CORRECTION jaga611986,

i'm just 6' not 6'1" ;-)

-"mr. tall"-

by Trystan

Punyemas! Sumobra ng one inch! Kunsabagay, importante nga naman ang inches, right girls? :)

by callboi

hi everyone! speacially to jaga611986 < ano ba to NTlogin? :)

and lahat sa mga nag comment na ! ( Trystan> at my account na fren ko dito ha! amazing ! )

my take namn sa situation mo jagz, i know na its a big decision to come out, it will be a turning point in your life that you will have to do LOTS of sacrifices and make some adjustments ... because you dnt know whats the outcome of your action... nasa sa yo din namn yan kung you'll gona spread yur wings na or di pa... but shud follow sa OUT 101 , tell your frens first, im sure kung totoong frens mo sila, they will be ALL happy for you! wag mo munang sabihin sa lola mo baka ma heart attack pa siya :)

theres always 2 sides of a coin dba.. so there will be pros and cons in yur decision... take the risks :)

tc always!

by freak_me

oo nga naman. out ka na. gus2 moh sabay tayo?? gus2 ko na rin mag out eh. :)

by brownvixen

additional comment lang, heads up, mejo mahirap sa simula pero pag nasabi mo na sa mga dapat mong sabihan, masaya, you'll feel free, minsan hindi pinaplano yan, ang dapat mong gawin, ihanda mo sarili mo. marami akong straight friends, as in, now lang ako nagkaron talaga ng mga friends na they know their gay pero, like what I've said, walang bahid. And everytime we go out, ang saya talaga. I'll give u a sample ng pagout ko sa isang straight na friend. Etong friend ko na to sobrang close kami pero ewan ko ba sa kanya kung bakit never syang nagkaroon sya ng idea kung ano sexual preference ko. One time, inaya ko sya uminom kasi wala lang... then sabi ko sa kanya,"Pao meron akong sasabihin sayo, pero I think alam mo na... ex ko si Rene (hindi nya tunay na pangalan, pero first BF ko sya)..." alam mo ginawa nung friend ko na si Pao (na straight na straight)? lasing na kami pareho pero he stood up, walked towards me, so I stood up too, he hugged me sabay sabi nya "Thank you for sharing it to me, I'm proud of you dude, you know naman how much the group loves you, and I love you too man, thanks for the trust, walang magbabago...". That was one of the most memorable nights of my life. I was happy not because sinabi ko sa kanya ang totoo, (well in fact,s a lahat ng barkada namin, sya na lang ang hindi nakakaalam) but because that moment was actually a test kung totoong kaibigan ko ba talaga si Pao and of course it will break my heart kung magwowalk out sya kasi I realized pag ginawa nya un, hindi ko sya totoong friend, but it turned out otherwise. After I said thanks to him, back to inuman ulit kami tapos nagkulitan na, sabi nya "gago ka bakit ngayon mo lang sinabi sakin yan! gago ka akala ko barkada lang kayo ni Rene kaya kayo lagi magkasama ung pala naging boyfriend mo un" sabay tawa kami ng malakas....

by kulutero

to: trystan

pasensya na miscalculation/estimation.

to: t_vixen

sige...sabay tau....

to: kultero

salamat again....thanks dude

to: callboi

hot topic na yata ito.
btw, in 3 days nabasa ko lahat ng post mu from the first post mu to the latest, while im taking calls...(sometimes ma release ko ang call if super ganda nag topic ,huhuhu, poor cust)

:) :) :) :) :)

by jaga611986

yeah you're welcome

by kulutero

go go go. sabay din natin c callboi magout baka gus2 nya na rin... :)

by brownvixen

Jaga611986 if they are real friends of yours they should accept you for who you are. If they have problem with your coming out then they are not real friends of yours :p

by missindia

Wow, impressed naman ako sa suportang binibigay ninyo kay Jaga611986. But of course, I would do the same thing. In my time kasi may pagka-conservative pa ang mga tao. Somehow you can feel the discrimination, sa school, sa first job ko (I was a working student then). But I was able to survive the rudeness and foul-mouthed not just by other people worst is ng mga kamag-anak ko (and sometimes even until now pero dedma lang ako). Masuwerte ka Jaga611986 to have people and friends not to mention relatives na naiintindihan ka at maiintindihan. Kung hindi naman ay hayaan mo sila, just be happy and continue with your new life.

Good luck and I’ll pray for you that everything will turn out to be what you want it to be.

Cheers!

by addyict

thanks addyict....

by jaga611986

ur welcum jaga611986. Just take it easy. :) :) :)

by addyict

try me!! it myt work out!!

by nobodysboi

hey guyz...
im very happy ryt now....
because IM OUT...
my family knew it already and my closest friends.
my boyfriend is the way for me that im out.
hes a nurse by profession, thru him im confident to tell my family and friends about the real me i have nothing to be afraid of , i cant hide my feelings that im very inlove with him. by the way we're both bi.
it started when my bf suprized me, by picking me up at work at around 1am. by gay officemate noticed it...to make the story short ( maybe )..
i was so nervous that time, sinabihan ko nga siya na bilisan ang pag drive ng sasakyan para di masyado ma pansin ng friend ko.
at 4pm, i was so scared to work because of what happen that early morning 1am.
so nag kita kami ng gay officemate ko sa ayala cebu kasi may ibibigay cya. super ang kaba ko. before nya inabot ang ibibigay nya may tanong talaga " IS THAT YOUR BF WHO PICK-UP? "...
ang nasagot ko " YES pls pls pls SECRET lang ito "...yun super ang tawa nya...
so yun ang simula ng akong magiging OUT.
i shared my secret to one of my fashionista officemate na babaye...ang reaction nya..super..UMIYAK at nag HUG sa akin then sabi " IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU "...
sa family side naman...wala akong naging kaba....super dali lang.....aside knowing that im OUT , alam din nila na may boyfriend ako...hatid sundo pa nga ako sa bahay...if restday niya sa hospital....happy din ako sa bf ko kasi sya ang nag encourage sa akin to practice our profession of being nurse...heheehhhe....

to all my new friends here (if you allow me to call my new friends )

SALAMAT THANK YOU for your ENCOURAGEMENT...

TO ALL DISCREET..mag OUT na KAYO....

MASAYA TALAGA ang FEELING....

if gusto nyo ko ma add sa friendster...

just personal message me....

-jon

by jaga611986

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